As you pointed out, this topic has been discussed many times. However, we can look at it again. Technically, the longitudinal force on a nozzle is the annular area from the bellows mean diameter to the ID of the pipe. The balance of the force will develop on the backside of your vessel. Also, there will be an equal and opposite full thrust (PxA) force on the elbow on the opposite side of the EJ. Having said this, you should check the vessel and it’s anchor for the full pressure thrust.
Also, there is a special concern about using an unrestrained expansion joint in FRP pipe. FRP is not a homogenous material but a composite material. It relays on the fiberglass to restrain both the hoop and longitudinal forces it does this on a diagonal bias. Think of the Chinese finger puzzle where you put a finger in each end and try to pull your fingers out and can’t. If you eliminate the longitudinal force, the hoop stress becomes unbalance and the pipe will break down. Unfortunately, since an EJ in FRP is so unusual, I can’t cite any documents on this, but you need to be very careful and when in doubt, don’t use a joint.