Based on my follow up, my recommendation remains pretty much the same.
Understand, you are talking about an arbitrary point in space for your contractual break. The reality is the pipe doesn't care whose package it's in. The forces/moments and displacements at a given point are going to depend on what going on with both sides.
If your side is much stiffer, then displacements will tend to be governed by your piping. Alternatively, if the other vendor has a stiffer system, such as a direct nozzle connection on some sizable equipment, then it is likely going to push your pipe where it wants to.
You still need some idea of what is going on across the border. If you have piping runs on both sides, your best bet may be to meet with the vendor and agree to an anchor point, either on your side or theirs. A reasonable stiff anchor allows each side to work fairly independently of each other.
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Edward L. Klein
Pipe Stress Engineer
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