om123,
You mention vertical load from elbow to pipe is transferred thru a +Z vertical restraint.
The +Z vertical direction is probably from a CAD convention for +Z vertical. I am old school 2D CAD where +Y is vertical.
You might need to confirm that the boiler supplier is using +Y or +Z for the vertical (or horizontal) load.
The relief side outlet connection would see a horizontal load, if a run of straight pipe was attached to the relief valve. This would be like the outlet pipe was directed to outside of building by a flat horizontal pipe run. If the boiler supplier is providing the relief valve, but no outlet piping, then his horizontal load on the relief valve is correct for no elbow (straight pipe) connected to the relief valve side outlet.
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R Yee