Mul,
Yes, we have several stainless steel piping connectng to a FRP tank. In some cases we have rubber exp. joint connections between the piping and the tank nozzles, but, it is always much better to route the pipe where you don't need REJs with it.
For the load allowables, ask the vendor... If you can't get it, provide them the loads. In our job, we don't assume something we are not certain about.
Goodluck!
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Flexy